For most of my life I was as monogamous as it was possible to be, almost to a fault. I found that jealousy would frequently rear its head if my partner or crush du jour was so much as spotted in the same room as someone who might chance at a flirt.Lady Seeking Real Sex FL Quincy 32351
My choice was clear: I could either give it a chance and try dating someone who already had a partner, or risk losing them for good. What I experienced surprised me in the best possible way. Once I let go of the fears and insecurities I had previously held around relationships, I was granted a fresh perspective on what it meant to be with someone.
Who am I to demand a partner never again indulge a crush, share a kiss at a party, or monogqmous someone to bed? And who are they to demand the same of me?
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Likewise, I never had much of a maternal instinct, and after 27 years of having a completely silent biological clock it seems only right that I should focus on having rich and fulfilling romantic relationships instead of aiming for a husband, three children, and a white picket fence.
It can get complex!
It is entirely possible to be in a relationship where loyalty, trust, and honesty are valued while both partners sleep with and date other people: I would know. I have lived it more than once.
Not everyone can happily extend themselves to imagining their partner with someone else. I can only speak for myself and what works for monogamouss, and what that is is a thoughtful and genuine approach to relationships in which I have made the conscious choice to opt out of promising myself to the one person Single long term monogamous only 40 55 the rest of my existence.
And spoiler alert: I did. Topics Relationships Opinion. Women comment.
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